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By Chris Crain
In a sign of the times, a tranny boi is taking on the gay
boys in one magazine’s annual contest.
There’s something about Alexander O., one of the contestants
for “Coverboy of the Year” in the D.C. gay mag,
Metroweekly. The other 10 finalists in the popular annual
contest gab about the typical mix of fashion, pop culture
and boy craziness that we’ve come to expect of the
20-something twinks featured weekly in the publication’s
Coverboy Confidential profile.
But Alexander’s bio reads a bit more, well, lesbian.
His favorite TV show is The L Word. If he could have dinner
with three people—alive or dead—he would pick
Angelina Jolie, Katherine Moennig and Judy Dlugacz.
It’s safe to say that 99 percent of gay men don’t
know Katherine Moennig is the actress who plays the sexy,
butch character of Shane on said Showtime series, and the
remaining 1 percent couldn’t pronounce Dlugacz, much
less know she’s the founder of lesbian Olivia Cruises.
And then there is the matter of Alexander’s girlfriend
Melissa, who he describes as “hot,” “smart,
sexy —she’s everything.” The editors of
Metroweekly, which began years ago as Michael’s Weekly,
a typical gay bar rag and now identifies as “Washington
D.C.’s GLBT News Magazine,” never come right
out and explain how a lesbian became a coverboy, but we find
a clue in Alexander’s willingness to talk about transgender
issues.
“I just want to be more visible and spread awareness,” says
Alexander. “It’s OK to be transgendered—or
not.”
Inclusive words, to be sure, but Alexander’s campaign
to be Coverboy of the Year is sure to rub some the wrong
way. He’s already been introduced at a banquet of transgender
activists, who were urged to support him, and a number of
trans e-mail lists are drumming up votes as well.
It rubbed me the wrong way for the sake of Adam D., another
Coverboy finalist and, I should disclose, a friend and former
tenant of my Washington, D.C., apartment. To be honest, I
teased Adam endlessly when he posed for MW, not to mention
when his three picks for that fantasy dinner were James Dean,
Enrique Iglesias and Jeremy Bloom. But at least I know who
they are!
If Alexander’s trans campaign should succeed, as I
suspect it will, it wouldn’t be the first time that
trans activists have ruffled GLB feathers. For years, male-to-female
trans women have tried to attend the female-only Michigan
Womyn’s Festival, leading organizers to adopt a controversial “womyn
born as womyn” admissions policy.
Lesbian journalist Jennifer Vanasco has written about how
the popularity of gender-bending among young lesbians has
all but eliminated femmes from the under-30 crowd.
“Young women who once called themselves butch now call
themselves tranny bois, and these tranny bois are mostly
dating each other,” Vanasco, a self-identified femme,
wrote in a provocative column a couple of years ago.
Some of those who champion gender bending claim it will once
and forever explode gender stereotypes, but it’s not
immediately clear just how. Are “tranny bois” really
bending genders when they don’t feel comfortable self-identifying
as women in touch with their masculine side? Or is it reaffirming
gender stereotypes to say that being butch means being a
man?
If Alexander is indeed someone who would have identified
as a “tomboy” or a butch lesbian a few years
back, does being a “tranny boi” really make him
a gay twink, too?
What’s most striking about Alexander isn’t necessarily
what he may or may not be packing below — he’s
happy to do a striptease on request, by the way, according
to his bio. It’s that Alexander, who comes off as completely
endearing whatever gender he identifies with, is more lesbian
or even straight male than he is gay boy—spiky hair
and tank top aside.
We’ve all seen how changing cultural conventions can
irritate, even as they generate greater tolerance and acceptance.
Tranny teens have run for homecoming queen, and Bill O’Reilly
practically foamed at the mouth earlier this month when a
pair of happy lesbians were voted “cutest couple” for
their high school yearbook.
But breaking down mainstream conventions is different than
pressuring one minority group to include another as one of
its own. Some of those tensions came to light during the
divisive debate over the Employment Non-Discrimination Act,
and whether to go forward with “sexual orientation” protections
if the votes weren’t there for “gender identity” as
well.
Some of us were upset at the idea that GLB people aren’t
deserving of equal rights, or even our own organizations,
because of the “LGBT” groupthink that has taken
over the movement.
Those who wanted to scrap Barney Frank’s gay-only ENDA,
on the other hand, argued that gays are necessarily gender
non-conformists. Some even broadened the definition of “transgender” far
beyond transsexuals and crossdressers to include anyone who
doesn’t fit masculine and feminine gender stereotypes.
But by saying “we’re all transgender,” in
effect, the word itself becomes too watered down to be useful
as a descriptor. There are important differences between
sexual orientation and gender identity, and blurring the
lines doesn’t do anyone a favor, after a point.
Is a butch lesbian who identifies as a tranny boi no different
than a gay twink, despite his passion for The L Word and
Angelina Jolie? If Alexander wins Metroweekly’s Coverboy
of the Year, will he “raise awareness” of transgender
issues, or just raise a few heckles about how political correctness
can rob the fun out of even the silliest of beauty contests.
Chris Crain is former editor of the Washington Blade and
five other gay publications, and now edits www.gaynewswatch.com.
He can be reached via his blog at www.citizencrain.com.
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