Mr. Gay 2006:
An International Competition

An ambitious competition pits sexy men in the U.S.A. against one another and then on to the coveted international title.

America's "Mr. Everyman" will be a spokesman selected specifically to raise the visibility of gay men, humanize gay people in the media, create a positive role model, and confront homophobia in today's culture.

By Michael Wood

Any gay man who ever dreamed of strutting his stuff on the runway in hopes of donning a tiara and a sash will finally get his chance. OK, there may be no diamond tiaras (or high heels) involved, but the Mr. Gay USA Competition is landing in Palm Springs and the battle for the bedazzled crown promises to be as intense as any competition among gay men has ever been.

"We're not using the beauty pageant model for our competition," says Don Spradlin, executive producer and co-founder of the Mr. Gay USA contest. "We have events outside the realm that show real physical competition between the contestants." These include endurance tests like rock climbing and firefighter's training school. On a larger scale, the competition seeks to be all-inclusive, going beyond mere good looks and physical prowess. Contestants should be charismatic and well-spoken, with clear goals, a level of academic and professional success, and ideally some accomplishment within the gay community. Striving to be more far-reaching than perfect pecs, primped hair, and revealing swimsuits, Spradlin hopes that the contest will create a positive image for gay men both in the community and in the eyes of the country at large.

So how did the idea for a Mr. Gay USA come to fruition? "My partner [Tom Roth] goes to Europe on business and he saw the Mr. Gay Germany contest when he was over there. He came back and asked me if I would join him to produce a U.S. version," Spradlin remembers. That was in late 2000 and the two have been busy working on the seedling of an idea ever since. "I went over to Germany as their guest and observed their contest and really got to see how they put it together and how they were making their systems work," he says. "We found that contests in Europe to select a national winner already existed in several nations, including Germany, UK, Greece, Norway, Switzerland, Sweden, Hungary and Italy. Some of these contests have existed for five years or more, and most use the name ÔMr. Gay (name of country)'." With that experience under his belt, he felt confident a competition could be done stateside.

"Our decision to use the name "Mr. Gay" was based on the fact that we -- here in the U.S. -- wanted to mirror their methods and production system. Most of these producers organize preliminary contests in several major cities in their country and bring the city finalists together for a national contest," commented Spradlin.

"The last step before really launching this was to produce an actual contest, so I produced one in San Francisco and the winner of that contest will come to Mr. Gay USA as a representative for San Francisco," says Spradlin. Similar regional competitions will take place in in the upcoming months in major cities across the country, including San Diego and a preliminary event in Palm Springs. The hopes is to lure lots of local crown-seekers into the national contest to be held this October in Palm Springs. "Each city producer is doing his own promotion, through means and connections, and will then submit their finalist to the Mr. Gay USA contest," explains Spradlin.

"The original plan was just "How do we produce a U.S. contest that has a legitimate beginning? How to go from nothing to something?' We had decided that we would do a minimum of five U.S. cities that had their contests and then the goal was to pick a USA winner," says Spradlin. But the idea became bigger than either Spradlin or Roth imagined. "We were going to have Mr. Germany come as our guest, because it was just one guy that we knew of, but then we found out that for the first time there was also a Mr. Gay Europe Competition happening." Spradlin says the buzz about Mr. Gay USA spread there and that got the ball rolling into an idea for a much bigger Mr. Gay forum. The concept of a Mr. Gay International was born.

Spradlin decided that if he and Roth could convince other winners from their countries to compete, they would expand upon their original plan and host an international competition in the States. It worked. "Four of the producers decided they would send their guys. So then we came up with the idea that we would first pick a USA winner, then immediately -- on the same stage -- have the Europeans come out and we would have the Mr. Gay International 2006 competition," say Spradlin. This all may sound like a complicated concept for a contest in its inaugural year, but Spradlin insists he has been working very hard to conceive a quality show. "When I was talking about this with my stage director ... it's basically like a five-act play ... we will pick a Mr. USA winner and then once that guy is picked and is given his title, we then have an intermission. We'll change the stage set, and then [Mr. Gay USA] comes out and competes against -- what appears now to be 10 -- European winners who are coming."

Both competitions will be held in Palm Springs at the Riviera Resort Oct. 7-9. Spradlin says that Palm Springs mayor Ron Oden was "continually helpful" in getting him and his partner in touch with "all the right people to make it happen." "We plan on continuing this each year," he says. "We have plans to add at least five new U.S. cities next year and grow this into a U.S. contest that gets bigger and bigger each year."

The preparation and planning for an upstart contest of this scope and magnitude are immense, but Spradlin and Roth knew the opportunity was something they couldn't pass up. "I think there's this transition in our society about gay culture that allows us to have this contest. In other words, I think the timing is right to do this right now. A lot of different lines have come together, a lot of different values have changed ..." he trails off searching for the words. "People's opinions and perceptions of [gays] in society have changed. It's more positive." He feels that gay men and women are much more accepted than in the past and he feels a competition that celebrates gay men in a positive light has been long overdue.

"Specialty gay contests have been around for a long time," says Spradlin referring to leather, bear, drag contests, and others. "The fact is, they existed because those subcultures within the gay community are very strong and they're very active." He thinks the gay populace as whole is stronger now. "Due to all these things that we [in the gay community] have now -- more exposure on television, laws that have changed to our benefit -- we now have the opportunity to look at a Mr. Gay Everyman, or whatever we want to call it, that's all-inclusive and I'm really focused on putting that out there. I think it's really important that we do this. And do it now."

For more information about how to enter the competition or to purchase tickets to the October event in Palm Springs, visit www.MrGayCompetition.com.

• Fiesta Cantina: preliminary contest on Monday, Aug. 1, entrants encouraged to bring an application, available online, at 9 p.m. for the contest that begins at 10 p.m.

• Fubar: preliminary contest, date to be announced

• I Candy Restaurant Lounge: sponsoring a finalist for the Mr. Gay Los Angeles Finals, but not hosting a preliminary contest.

• San Diego and Palm Springs contestants, contact Russell Poncik at (619) 339-9361.

 
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