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By Karen Ocamb
(Editor's note: In the interest of full disclosure, we report
that IN Los Angeles magazine was contacted to do a story
on wheelchair-bound Jessica Hammond and her partner, Tamika
Randazzle. But upon learning that the closeted couple was
sheltered at the Messiah Missionary Baptist Church in Lake
Charles, La., IN decided the first priority was to help extricate
them from their situation. IN paid for their tickets to Los
Angeles and set up a relief fund with St. Thomas Episcopal
Church, Hollywood.)
Like most other Americans, Mark Miller, an openly gay Los
Angeles area screenwriter and children's book author, was
shocked by the human tragedy after Hurricane Katrina hit
Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana. His heart went out to
the stranded victims, especially those in New Orleans, his
home just three years earlier. But he had no idea that Katrina
would irrevocably change his own life so many miles away.
Before coming to Los Angeles to pursue his writing career,
Miller had given part-time work in a New Orleans hotel he
managed to a young African American youth named Jamie and
some of his extended family. They stayed in touch, haphazardly,
after Miller's move. Then, out of the blue, five days after
Katrina hit, Miller received a call from Jamie, marooned
at a New Orleans airport with his extended family and begging
for help.
"We really feel this was divine intervention," Miller
told IN.
When the announcement came about the hurricane, Jamie,
17, and his openly gay cousin, Kenny Marcelin, 21, and Marcelin's
large family sought refuge in a hotel. About two or three
in the morning the winds got too heavy, the air conditioner
was pushed in, and the family moved to the hallway where
they waited until morning, Marcelin told IN. The next day,
with the water rising, Marcelin and Jamie decided they needed
to go get food and water.
"We couldn't swim in the water because it was so messy," Marcelin
recalled. But they nonetheless waded out to a nearby grocery
store where they broke in and filled four large buckets with
food, water, batteries, and baby formula. As they sought
help to get the buckets to their family and others stuck
at the hotel, the buckets were stolen. "We were trying
to help everyone and they were stealing from us," Marcelin
said.
"The next day the boats came and brought us to a bridge
(Interstate-10) but it was so hot, we couldn't stay. So me
and Jamie put an ice box door in the water and we brought
our brothers and sisters (ages 6-11) back to the hotel. Then
we went back from my mom and stuff," he said. Marcelin
and another brother tried to go home, but with "people
in the water, and feces backing up and water up to our neck," they
decided to go back to the hotel. They got everyone up to
the roof where they tried to use a flare gun to attract the
attention of a helicopter -- but to no effect. On day four
they were finally rescued and taken to the New Orleans airport.
"It was a mess," Marcelin said. They were told
to wait in line for evacuation to another airport, but just
as they reached the front, the airlift ended and they were
told to get back in line the next day. They slept on the
floor, in line. But when the airlift resumed, the officials
started at the back of the line in the pouring rain, surrounded
by armed guards. "They treated us like we were murderers," he
recalled.
What Miller considers "divine intervention" occurred
on that line when Jamie found a scrap of paper in his pocket
with Miller's phone number. Someone else in line had a working
cell phone.
"Jamie found a scrap of paper and a cell phone that
worked and he called and said, 'Help me' -- and that's all
it took," says Miller. "He and Kenny stayed up
all night watching over the kids and his aunt [Kenny's mother]
because they said people were getting robbed and raped at
the airport."
Miller hit the Internet and through the kindness of strangers,
found airline vouchers out of San Antonio, Texas, where they
had been re-located, transportation, housing and even job
opportunities for Jamie, Kenny, and the rest of the family
of seven. The family is now safely harbored by Susan and
Gene Knight in their 30-acre ranch in Pinon Hills near Victorville.
Miller even found a sponsor to pay for a $10,000 scholarship
to send Marcelin to a junior college so he can learn how
to be a hairdresser.
But while Marcelin's drama unfolded, he worried about his
best friend Jessica Hammond and her lesbian partner, Tamika
Randazzle. The 25-year-old girls had piled into a car with
Randazzle's grandparents and fled their East New Orleans
home when the mayor first issued the evacuation order Sunday,
the day before Katrina hit. But Jessica, who was disabled
by a spinal chord accident at age three months, was in pain
from the uncomfortable car ride and, running out of money,
they decided to stop at the Messiah Missionary Baptist Church
in Lake Charles. Rev. Owen took them in, secured the grandparents
a home, and tried to help the two. He assumed Randazzle was
Hammond's nurse.
In the South, Hammond told IN, "they tell you God
doesn't approve of that," being gay. The first night
they were separated in a room full of 30 other Katrina victims;
it was the first time they were apart in five years. "I
couldn't sleep. I'm used to her sleeping next to me, helping
me roll over. And I'm not ashamed of being disabled but I
was embarrassed about changing (into donated clothes) in
a room full of people." Luckily the pastor cleared out
a small classroom, paid for an air mattress out of his own
pocket so Hammond wouldn't have to sleep on the floor, and
gave them some privacy.
"I would get depressed about being in a wheelchair
and I didn't know where my family was and we lost everything
-- all our memories were in that house. But Tamika just kept
saying it would be alright. We waited for the sun to come
up so she could push me outside and we could act normal," Hammond
said.
Another miracle occurred: Hammond's cell phone worked.
When Marcelin called trying to find her, he relayed the story
of how he was rescued by Miller. "Kenny, tell him to
save me," she said.
Miller went to work. Disappointed by the lack of response
from gay Christian churches, he was relieved to finally find
a Long Beach lesbian couple, Margaret LaRue and Elke Riedlong,
willing to take them in. But he didn't have enough money
for the plane trip.
Fate once again intervened. Laleh Soomekh, a photographer
friend of this reporter's, spotted Miller's notice on the
Web. Though she no longer had my contact information, her
fingers remembered my phone number and she called me to write
a story about the couple, hoping the publicity would help
raise money for them to start a new life. Concerned that
they needed immediate help, I contacted IN Publishers Mark
Hundahl and David Stern, who agreed to pay for the tickets
to bring them from Lake Charles to LAX.
The second task was to set up a fund for them since Hammond
has been disabled from infancy and Randazzle had been paid
to be her health-care worker. Now, neither of them had any
money, resources, or contacts to help with Hammond's special
needs.
Interestingly, St Thomas had already jumped in to help
the victims of Katrina, having raised $15,000 to help a church
in Biloxi, Miss., where Associate Rector Mark Stuart had
once given sermons. On Monday, Sept, 12, Rev. Stuart and
Rev. Ian Elliot Davies agreed to set up the Jessica Fund
to which a few parishioners contributed funds immediately.
The next day, when Hammond and Randazzle arrived at LAX,
met by Miller, their lesbian couple housing hosts, Jamie,
Marcelin, Soomekh and this reporter -- most of us strangers
to each other -- the couple was presented with $400 in cash
and beamed with gratitude.
Asked how he felt about rescuing so many people, Miller
said, "I feel exhausted. But I feel so wonderful. I
really feel this changes your scope about what life is all
about. If I had to sell my car -- I had to do whatever it
took to help them because at least I have a home, a job,
clothing -- so if I couldn't give that up for people who
had nothing -- what kind of a person am I?"
Though LaRue and Riedlong built Hammond a ramp for her
wheelchair, Hammond is essentially a quadriplegic and needs
someone to push her around. Randazzle had been paid by the
state to be Hammond's health-care worker -- but neither knows
how to maneuver the new layers of local, state, and federal
bureaucracy to make the system work for them again, especially
with Randazzle as the "breadwinner" for the couple.
... Before the hurricane, Hammond was waiting for an electric
wheelchair so she could get out, learn to drive, and study
to become a recreational therapist. ... "When I was
in the hospital from age three months to 5 years old, the
recreational therapists always tried to lift my spirits and
make me feel better. I want to do the same thing for the
children," Hammond told IN. "The hurricane felt
like the end of the world to me. Our house is under water.
We've lost everything we own, including our first picture
at a gay ball -- we've been engaged for five years. We don't
have those memories anymore, but Margaret and Elke are real
down to earth people and we really appreciate them taking
us in. Thank God there are loving people."
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